The Main Issue With Female Masterbation Toys, And How You Can Solve It
Female Masterbation Toys
If you're looking to stimulate your clitoris or your vagina the top female masterbation tools offer multiple levels of pleasure. Our experts offer their top choices to help you find a perfect fit
Masturbation is a sure-fire way to kickstart your libido and discover new turn-ons--whether in a group or on your own.
1. Tampons for Applicators with Tampons
You can use a standard applicator and tampon to conceal your period, or to play with your clitoris. Be sure to pick up the FDA-approved kind that's meant for one use and then discarded afterward, not to be reused. (You can find a slew of options on the internet that you can put on the end of your finger to insert, or buy the one with a built-in applicator to give you even more convenience and discretion.)
In the 1940s, the designer of the tampon created an applicator that was designed after telescope tubes so women didn't have to touch their clitoris directly. To use it, sit on the toilet and pull back the folds of skin that line your vagina, then place the tip of the tampon applicator between your thumb and middle finger, and position your index finger near the bottom of the smaller tube, where the string extends. Push until the tampon is inside your body, about one inch lower towards your lower back.
Relax and move the applicator around your clits and other internal organs, stroking and stimulating to your heart's content. The curved design of the applicator that feels like your fingertip, and is made out of stainless steel (which warms up to your skin), can be great for targeting those sensitive nerve bundles in your body, Good Vibrations education director Andy Duran previously told SELF.
You can also add a vibrator the mix to boost sensation, if you're up for it. The Stronic range of pulsators has one called the Surf, which has the body with a ridge and a curving tip to reach the inner vaginal opening and g-spot as well as a motor that can deliver rumbly, hard thrusting. It comes with five levels of intensity and 10 vibration patterns that allow you to personalize your experience. It's expensive but the Surf received an ear-splitting endorsement from three reputable experts in an earlier SELF article. The toy is also waterproof and whisper quiet. It's worth a shot, right?
2. Dildos
Dildos are sex toys that are used as an anal or vaginal plug for self-stimulation as well as for masturbation with a partner. They can also be used to penetrate the oral cavity and even put in the G-spot. In addition to these sexual purposes they can also be used to play fetish games and are a popular part of peg play and strap-on sexual activity.
It is important to consider the body's needs and sensitivities when shopping for a dildo. You'll need to choose a material that is safe for your body, like silicone or glass. female masterbation toys TOPS Adult Toys -porous substances like these are the most secure and easier to clean. Porous dildos trap dirt and bacteria which can cause irritation and allergic reactions.
There's a broad range of shapes, sizes, and functions that you can pick from when choosing a dildo. Some dildos have ribs and bumps to add extra sensations. Others are shaped like penises from nature. There are single-ended and double-ended dildos.
Dildos can be used in sexual situations. However, they are a favorite among bisexuals, lesbians, and transgenders. They are also popular with males who are cisgender, who use them for masturbation and sex.
It's up to you whether you choose to do a dildo for your partner or for yourself. It might take a bit of trial-and-error before you find the perfect style. In general it is recommended to choose an dildo made of soft silky-smooth silicon that will be incredibly comfortable on both of your partners. If you want to make use of the dildo as a peg, or for hands-free play, pick one with two ends, such as the Ruse Double Dildo, the New York Sex Toy Collective's Mason or Emisil Pack & Play Penis. You should choose a dildo made from dual-density silicon, since it provides the most comfortable balance of comfort and vibrance. Also make sure that your dildo is long enough to allow for easy gripping. Remember that dildos may not be for everyone. They also carry a serious risk of sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in the event that they are not cleaned properly and regularly.
3. Fingers
Finger vibrators are a great option for those looking for a toy which feels good in your hands, is easy to use and fits comfortably. These toys are typically composed of rubbery substances and slide over your fingers to transform them into an Dildo. They make an excellent addition to playing with your partner or masturbating. For best results make sure you pair it with lube.
Anal beads are a popular female masturbation toy for girls that can be used alone or with a companion for an extra thrill. These small, round toys are inserted into the anal artery through the opening. They stimulate the nerve endings by releasing thousands of them. The gradual removal of them during or before orgasm can improve the sensation. These are great for people who are just beginning who may be nervous about a sexy insert.
Many of the toys you can hold in your hands can create a variety of sensations. Some of these are textured and intended to be sucking or stroking toys some are more orgasmic. If you're interested in trying an entirely new way of pleasure, choose toys that can be held in your hand.
Another toy that is fun and easy to try is a G-spot stimulator which is designed to be sucked or stroked and works with all types of lubrication. This type of toy is an excellent way to observe how your body responds to clitoral stimuli. It may even cause gasps.
There are a variety of masturbation products that are available for females. Don't be afraid of trying something new. Why wouldn't diversity be essential to a fulfilling, exciting sex experience with your partner? So, sit down in front of a mirror and a large tube of lube and start exploring your breasts, hips, inner thighs and the vulva. Pinch, tug and rub them all over and notice what turns you on. It may take some time to find the right toys, but you'll have plenty of new ones to play with.
4. Sex Toys
The toy selection for female masturbation seems endless with dildos, vibrators and clit-suckers, among others. With so many options available it can be a challenge to know which ones to purchase for yourself or your partner. To help you choose the right sex toys for your needs, we've asked experts to give their opinions on the best options for female masterbation.
A good sex device can provide both external and internal stimulation. This is particularly beneficial for women suffering from pain issues like menstrual cramps, dryness or dryness in the vaginal region. This one comes from Unbound is a good example. It is a hugely praised product by multiple reviewers, as it offers a flexible internal vibe with external suction. It can be used to stimulate your clitoris, inner vaginal tube, or even while seated.
Another top pick is this flexible internal vibrator from Lovehoney. It's got a real feel that could be an instant turn-on for some, thanks to its balls, tips and veins. It's also an option for hands-free, which allows you to concentrate on your sexual pleasure without the need to hold something. It offers different patterns, speeds and sounds that will satisfy every sexual desire.
Curved sex toys are also a popular choice for female masturbation. They have a curved head that fits inside the vagina to provide internal massage. They can also be used to stimulate nerve bundles that are sensitive, such as those in the G-spot and prostate. One of our favorites is the Lovense Lush 2, which we love due to its powerful rotation and curved head that targets the "right" spots and creative sync functions.
It's important to note that any toy you pick should be made of body-safe materials. Toys containing chemicals can cause irritation, or even urinary tract infections.
When you are choosing a sexy plaything pick an item that is FDA-approved, such as medical-grade silicon, glass or stainless steel. Avoid toys made of rubber or plastic because they contain phthalates. These phthalates have been known to cause irritation and inflammation in the vaginal region.